EVERY WAY OK

Ashes to Ashes

2012-01-12T12:12:00.000-08:00

ashes to ashes
once living, now dead
nothing but a memory

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ashes to ashes
who I was
I no longer am

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dust to dust
I am not

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only eternal becoming

Alan’s first T’ai Chi book

2011-12-03T01:57:00.000-08:00

By a twist of fate, I became a “copyright owner.” That means I can give you the freedom to share and to remix the written material contained in Alan Peck’s first T’ai Chi book as long as you attribute the work and share-alike. As U.G. Krishnamurti once said, “you are free to reproduce, distribute, interpret, misinterpret, distort, garble, do what you like… without my consent or the permission of anybody.”

Introduction to Tai Chi, Alan Peck

Kahlil Gibran, On Death

2011-11-03T15:22:00.000-07:00

Then Almitra spoke, saying, We would ask now of death.

And he said:

You would know the secret of death. But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heath of life? The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light. If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life. For life and death are one, even as the river and sea are one.

In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond; and like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring. Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.

Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honor. Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king? Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?

For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?

Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing. And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb. And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

Joan Halifax: Being With Dying

2011-10-03T13:11:00.000-07:00

Tami Simon speaks with Joan Halifax, who is an anthropologist, Buddhist teacher, and the author of The Human Encounter with Death, co-written with Dr. Stanislav Graf. In 1994, Joan created a project called “Being with Dying” to help health care professionals learn how to care for dying patients in a compassionate, mindful fashion. Here, Joan speaks about the powerful insights on living that she has learned from her years of caring for the dying—including the greatest gift that we can give another person.

Listen now (67 minutes)

Tibetan Buddhist Funeral: A Sky Burial

2011-09-03T04:17:00.000-07:00

Death and caring for the dying

2011-08-03T16:08:00.000-07:00

Ven. Tenzin Kacho teaches this retreat on death and caring for the dying. She draws on her experiences as a hospice chaplain working with people going through the death process to share the Dharma.

Death and Caring for the Dying 2
Death and Caring for the Dying 3
Death and Caring for the Dying 4
Death and Caring for the Dying 5

Helping Tibetan Children in India

2011-07-03T08:01:00.000-07:00

I am helping Tibetan Children in India in memory of Alan.
Find out more on my JustGiving page.
Thank you

When I am lying on my deathbed

2011-06-03T10:29:00.000-07:00

One regret, dear world,
That I am determined not to have
When I am lying on my deathbed
Is that I did not kiss you enough.

~ Hafiz

Be a light unto yourself

2011-05-03T10:07:00.000-07:00

When Buddha was on his death bed he noticed his young disciple Anan was weeping.

'Why are you weeping, Anan?' he asked.

'Because the light of the world is about to be extinguished and we will be in darkness.'

The Buddha summoned up all his remaining energy and spoke what were to be his final words on earth:

'Anan, Anan, be a light unto yourself.'

INDIAN POEM

2011-04-03T10:06:00.000-07:00

"This day is a special day, it is yours.
Yesterday slipped away, it cannot be filled anymore with meaning.
About tomorrow nothing is known.
But this day, today, is yours, make use of it.
Today you can make someone happy.
Today you can help another.
This day is a special day, it is yours."

Time to say goodbye

2011-03-03T07:22:00.000-08:00

I love you and now I let you go
knowing there's no coming and going
knowing there's no separation

Thank you for teaching me
how to dance with the wind

Free online course on Death

2011-02-03T14:19:00.000-08:00

Death with Shelly Kagan

There is one thing I can be sure of: I am going to die. But what am I to make of that fact? This course will examine a number of issues that arise once we begin to reflect on our mortality. The possibility that death may not actually be the end is considered. Are we, in some sense, immortal? Would immortality be desirable? Also a clearer notion of what it is to die is examined. What does it mean to say that a person has died? What kind of fact is that? And, finally, different attitudes to death are evaluated. Is death an evil? How? Why? Is suicide morally permissible? Is it rational? How should the knowledge that I am going to die affect the way I live my life?

Click HERE.

Memories...

2011-01-03T01:30:00.000-08:00

Letter from Gya House

2010-12-03T08:56:00.000-08:00

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Tribute to Alan

2010-11-28T15:47:00.000-08:00

Tai Chi Chuan & Oriental Arts
The Journal of the Tai Chi Union for Great Britain
No 35 Autumn 2010

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Alan, the Chinese Herbalist

2010-11-03T17:54:00.000-07:00

Although Alan dedicated most of his life to T'ai Chi, Tibetan Buddhism and Chinese Medicine, his love of art never waned. During the final years of his life his love-affair with cartoons, comics and digital art forms seemed stronger than ever.

This new blog shows how Alan used original mnemonic drawings to help him remember the Chinese Herbal Patent Formulas. May it be of help to all of you who are attempting the same!

La Passacaglia della Vita

2010-10-03T09:15:00.000-07:00

Prepare to Die!!

2010-09-03T02:43:00.000-07:00

This is something Alan did not long before he died. He loved 3D arts: comics, manga, digital sculpture, animation, you name it! Alan also liked the idea of this type of reminders; remembering death was one of his daily Buddhist practices.

If you're curious and want to find out more about this topic, the book Preparing for Death in Buddhism can be read online. Just click on the title.

Alan's notes: I am going to die today

2010-08-03T08:54:00.000-07:00

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The uncertainty of the hour of your death

2010-07-03T06:42:00.000-07:00

Planning for the future is like going fishing in a dry gulch;

Nothing ever works out as you wanted,
so give up all your schemes and ambitions.
If you have got to think about something—
Make it the uncertainty of the hour of your death.
Gyalse Rinpoche

Like a shadow...

2010-06-03T06:33:00.000-07:00

In the Vajra (Diamond) Sutra, the Buddha taught:

"All conditioned dharmas, are like a dream, like an illusion, like a bubble, like a shadow, like a dewdrop, like a lightning flash; you should contemplate them thus."

Donations in appreciation of Alan's life

2010-05-03T04:40:00.000-07:00

Donations of over £1,100 were collected for Gyakham Khangtsen in Drepung Loseling Monastery, from where Alan's Buddhist teachers came, and where Alan stayed for 3 weeks in January 2008. Thank you so much for your generosity.

See also: letter from the monks at Gyakham Khangtsen

Book about death and dying

2010-04-03T16:45:00.000-07:00

Preparing for Death and Helping the Dying

A Tribute to Alan Peck

2010-03-03T07:53:00.000-08:00

It is with the most profound sadness that we have to tell you about the death of our dear friend and teacher Alan Peck who died on Wednesday evening, 3rd March 2010.

The premature passing of such a gentle man, a sincere practitioner and lineage holder is an immense loss. All those who had the privilege to study and push hands with Alan had no doubt of the depth of his commitment, the level of his understanding and achievements.

His gentle teaching opened the door to the wonders of T'ai Chi for many hundreds of students he taught for over thirty years.

His advanced students will continue to teach the “Natural Way School of T'ai Chi” which he named in honour of Dr. Chi Chiang Tao and, to the best of their ability, pass on the wonders of this lineage to future generations.

OM MANE PADME HUNG